A path......
I met with him again. With background data, the questions were a bit more probative. And some serious questions were asked. Some I could not answer. We went back to the beginning. First class, etc. He dd have a time to go over what I sent him and he did mention it helped. I do my best to remain evidence and factually neutral but as we all know our perception determines our reality. This is just fact. I think that's why having all the messages will help as it will keep me centered and him properly informed. He did mention one thing that stuck with me. "First rule of reconciliation....the offender does not determine when the offended is healed. Time has no effect on this". This was something I never considered. We all heal at different rates, in different ways. For her it may have taken this long to realize she couldn't heal....that and banging a few different guys when she got pissed at me...who knows. The important part is, in the end, it should've ende